Loving someone doesn't 'ave to mean accepting everything they ever did as right.

Archer. You're an adult. Sit down with Rogue or with one of our counsellors 'ere and take it apart, strand by strand. She might've loved you; that doesn't mean she did right by you. She might not 'ave loved you; and that's not your fault. If you take one thing to 'eart today make it that: it's not your fault.